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Anyone else have to bribe their husband for their help with sex? Like we gotta help their asses when they want it or we catch make fucking attitude. But to get their help we have to use our bodies! I’m fed the fuck up. Then wonders why I never want to have sex. Maybe because it’s a fucking chore along with everything else!! 😡😡
hi guys i’m a mom of 2 and i just wanted to vent for a minute! i have been with my children’s father for 9ish years we’ve definitely had our problems but here lately with school,field trips,and sports i feel like im drowning. i constantly get asked where he is or why he’s not so involved but sadly he works outta state and is gone more than he’s home, ive sadly came to terms im like a single parent but without being single part “i know single parents have it much worse then i do” sometimes you cant help how you feel. i got fixed a couple months after my youngest was born because i knew i was done having kids, the tolls my mental and physical health has taken after having children has been hard. anyway im just kinda ranting so ill stop now but just remember you’re an amazing mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife whatever title you hold and keep being great
Being a single parent while married or with partner is so hard! Be it because of work or unwillingness. It’s so stressful, but I am glad you came here! I definitely know how you feel, I’ve got a few kiddos myself, and my man works really long hours Mondays - Fridays and on weekends I work to get a little break and I tell you it’s hard because he gets so stressed and I feel like I shouldn’t work because I’m only working for mental health reasons, but at the same time, there yo baby man! Don’t over think it lol. He’s a good daddy but an over thinker lack of patients too lol!
I’m 30 years old and have been through hell all my life. When I was 4 I was SA’d by family who was being SA’d and thought it was okay also. And that kills me because I grew up thinking that way okay myself and hurt others in the process which makes me feel like a predator. Although my therapist says it doesn’t. Doesn’t feel that way, and that’s a feeling that never goes away. This happened clear up until I was about 9 years old. And then a family friend needed to move in with her two sons. And one of her sons molested me, almost nightly. While my older sister slept in her bed. Soundly. Grant wasn’t her job to save me for a long time I did blame her. I don’t anymore. Then fast forward to when I was 14. I was raped by a childhood friends dad. Her half sister tried saving me, by pretending his daughter was getting beat up by his girlfriend (they got me drunk.) she was giving me a chance to run. I hadn’t yet I was still spinning. He came back. Was doing his prep when he said he wanted to go get his girlfriend because she wouldn’t want to miss out. luckily he was gone enough for me to run. Leaving behind some clothes and a lot of people I thought I knew. Amazing how people who were so close to me and ended up siding with a rapist. Grown ass adults telling a child she was a slut and full of shit she just wanted attention. Adults I knew my whole life. And I moved two hrs away and they stalked me trying to get me not to testify just for him to and up taking a plea deal. Fast forward a couple years a close friend of mines uncle died her and I and another of our friends had a slumber party to just be with her and help her through her loss and went to the funeral with her. For the friend we had with us to start touching me with his hands and mouth while I lay frozen pretending to sleep. Then to my first marriage. A man who felt that piece of paper meant I didn’t have a say with my body but he sure did. And he could share his with whoever he wanted. I’ve been raped molested hit mistreated and mentally abused and somehow I’m still standing.. although some days I wanna fall. And some days I do… not many people know the shit I’ve been through… and it’s really funny because people judged me when I was going through the worst of my healing.. judged me instead of helped me.. makes this page really nice to have so thank you
Such a brave share! I’m so sorry for all you’ve gone through. But I am so proud of you for surviving! Not many can handle the things you’ve been through, and hopefully this group can help those who feel they’re alone dealing with this stuff. Because you’re not alone!
i sharted at hobby lobby
It be your own body sum times!! Hopefully this wasn’t a joke lol. But soon after I had my first kiddo I ended up with a bad infection and peed myself in a dollar tree! Big ol puddle. Needless to say I don’t go there anymore and I ran tf out there as fast as I could! 🤣🤣
Words that linger
Words that lay twisted in the air
The words that lay heavy on my heart and mind
The ones I used to say as I walked out the door
Time and time again
Is just now a phrase that lingers in the quiet room
The lingering whisper on my lips begging to be said just once more
Though I know you won’t hear it no longer
The mind I contain pleads to say it where your ears can hear
I walk out the door with the image and an echo in my mind
*I love you daddy, as I kiss your head*
My mind is a gallery of faint memories playing silently in the background
My heart can feel that strings have been served to something that once was a heavy anchor
The world isn’t any different
It didn’t shift due to your missing presence
The clocks kept ticking
Streets stayed busy as usual
There was an instance I thought when I looked out into the world the difference would be eye catching or heart throbbing
The world stayed the same
Though my heart became a different shade
That doesn’t mean the worlds any-less
quieter or chaotic
It means where you once were placed
deteriorated in a twisted way
Even in the chaos it became silent
Memories choking others till they can not breath
Causing liquid solution to flow from them
Some may know
One day it’ll create a magnificent garden to grow but not until the coldness has left the air and the clouds move away from the sun but even then deep down the soil would all be the same
Memories being the foundation of what we all have left
This is such an amazing poem please tell me you have a book?!
I need some advice! I feel like my boyfriend’s hiding something from me and I want to find out but have no clue how. And if he’s not I want to know he’s not going to because we are talking about marriage. Someone PLEASE help a girl out!
Do you want sane advice or crazy girl advice lol
Honestly if you need to test him, you have your answer!
I’m a 32 year old woman and I’m struggling. I feel alone all the time and like I have no one I can talk to. When I do open up to someone they use it against me or just talk trash on me behind my back. And it kills me that they do because I have done so much for these people. And they make up lies about me and assumptions and just run with it. I get tired of trying to defend myself. I just want to run away and disappear. Sometimes I think about ending it all, no I wouldn’t do it. But just feels like no matter what I do it’s not good enough. Why are people so shitty
Just know you’re not alone. I know the feelings of wanting to disappear and the feelings of not wanting to be here. But I think about the people who actually do love me and how it would affect them. Anytime you’re feeling down or upset definitely post here or find another group that works for you. No offense to the website owner. It’s just important you find something that works for you and helps you feel better and wanna be here! You are loved, and I’m glad you’re still here!
Hello all! So I have some pretty embarrassing stuff I want to share but I don’t have anyone to tell or anyone who wouldn’t talk shit on me. So this page is perfect!
I just got married end of last year, and I’ve been with this man forever. Honestly I’m questioning why I married him. He’s mean to me, talks to other girls, controlling with money, won’t let me go and do anything with anyone I want to… but recently I’ve started missing my ex, but he and I are bother married and we don’t speak anymore. He and I weren’t together long and the girl he married I ended up being friends with (after the fact of everything) and I absolutely hate that I miss him. I’m sure it’s just because of how shitty my relationship is, but I just need to get it off my chest. Honestly I thought about secretly messaging him but I don’t think that’s a good idea. So I instead chose to tell the world 🤣🤣 honestly feels better!
So I’ve been in a relationship for a really long time, close to 10 yrs . Had our ups and downs yea but we’re finally in a place that’s the closest to not toxic we’ve ever been. But this man pisses me off! Like you want me to listen to every word that comes out your mouth like it’s god gift. BUT ILL BE DAMNED if when I speak you don’t hear shit?! Sorry for the language but it makes me boil. Like whyyyyy! Anyway thanks for listening to my Ted talk lol! Congrats on your new page and I hope it is a success I’ll be back to rant more I am sureeee
Welcome to the group!
This is such a great !!